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Stay Out of the Fire

James 1

I watched part of an interview with Erika Kirk this morning. She was asked if she wanted a public apology from Jimmy Kimmel for the lies he told about Charlie’s assassination. She said the show did reach out to her and asked how they could make it right. Her answer to them was, “This is not our issue.” She went on to say that forcing an apology didn’t interest her, that this issue isn’t between the two of them, but between Jimmy and God. She said she didn’t want or need an apology. Case closed.

What I got from what she said about that is that she refuses to enter into a battle with Kimmel over what he said. A public apology to make himself look human wasn’t on her agenda. Jimmy was not on her agenda. No hatred or anger on her part. Simply disinterest, and removing herself from a volatile situation.

Why can’t we all have that attitude when someone wrongs us? Why immediately jump into the ring, start swinging, and make it bigger than it ought to be?

“Well she disrespected me.” or “He started it…”

Just because someone started a fire, doesn’t mean you have to go stand in the flames.

James tells us, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger, for human anger does not accomplish God’s righteousness.” (1:19b-29)

Is accomplishing God’s righteousness on your agenda? The old “what would Jesus do?” is a questions we might ask ourselves. When they lied about him he opened not his mouth. He picked his. battles. And so should we.

I hear God say today, accomplishing God’s righteousness ought to be our goal. I might get my feelings hurt today. You might have someone pull out in front of you in traffic. We might be lied about, gossiped about, judged unfairly. How do we accomplish God’s righteousness in those situations?

Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.

You don’t go and jump into the flames just because someone started a fire.

Jesus Just Doesn’t Let Up

Matthew 5:38-42

Have you ever heard anyone say this passage in confusing or even that it certainly can’t mean what it says: should women stay in abusive marriages? Should I sit back and watch a thief ransack my home and not defend it? Should I give money to every bum with a cardboard sign by the side of the road?

I want to share what Chambers says about this: “We always say we do not know what Jesus Christ means when we know perfectly well He means something that is a blunt impossibility unless He remake us and make it possible.: (Studies in the Sermon on the Mount, Oswald Chambers Publishers, updated 2016, p 40).

Throughout his sermon, Jesus is speaking about our character, our disposition, our integrity. In these verses He continues that lesson using shocking examples from their culture.

To us He says: “Think of the worst insult or disrespect you can imagine, the biggest offense against you, the most unfair treatment you’ve every encountered. Then imagine you not having the desire to defend yourself or get even. Imagine you reaching out to the offender with generosity. Imagine you being kind to the person intent on hurting you.”

“Impossible!” you say. “That person doesn’t deserve my kindness.”

God’s answer? “Did I ask you to treat them the way they deserve? Do I treat you the way you deserve?”

Jesus doesn’t let up, does He? He’s always revealing one hard truth after another. This time He is addressing humble obedience. It has to do with letting go of my perceived rights and allowing Him to live His character through me. I have to surrender my will and accept His will.

Nowhere does Jesus talk about money in this passage. But we read these verses and interpret them materially. We read it and think about the bum on the side of the road. It’s a lot easier to think that way than to face my pride and my self-esteem or my skewed sense of fairness. Yet those are the things God is asking us to face.

You and I both know Jesus tells us to love our enemies and pray for those who mistreat us. Here, in this portion of the Sermon on the Mount, He is telling us how that looks in real life.

Impossible on our own. But very possible, a done deal, when the Holy Spirit is free to express the character of God through us.