1 Timothy 6:3-5

What is unwholesome talk? Certainly coarse language falls under that umbrella. There’s nothing wholesome about gossip, either. Paul says false doctrine is unwholesome.

Unwholesome talk reveals a prideful person, someone who doesn’t know what he’s talking about, and he doesn’t realize how foolish he sounds. He often just likes to hear himself speak.

Unwholesome talk leads to envy, strife, reviling, and evil suspicions. I had to think about that for a bit. But you know if you listen to gossip, you begin to suspect what you are hearing is true. It can change the way you feel toward someone. Unwholesome talk drives a wedge between people, and that does not honor God.

Paul says this about unwholesome talk: it is the useless wrangling of men of corrupt minds and destitute of truth.

Ouch.

The idea of unwholesome talk has been heavy on my heart lately. I won’t go into details but it is what is causing strife, hurt feelings, discord among people I love, just like Paul warned. I wish I could say I’ve remained faultless.

James tells us to control our tongue, that what comes out of our mouths reveals what is in our hearts. I don’t think we stop and consider the power in our words, or the fact that those words are like an x-ray into our souls.

I don’t want my conversations to be described as the wrangling of a woman with a corrupt mind, destitute of truth. I represent Jesus, after all. I am His voice to a lost world. My words matter.

And so do yours.