Ruth 1:6-14

I’m doing something a bit different in my personal devotional time. I started looking at the book of Ruth as I read “The Girl’s Still Got It” by Liz Curtis Higgs. (WaterBrook Press, 2012). I think she’s a good writer, clever and amusing. She’s encouraged me to slow down as I read this part of God’s Word, and take a look at my walk with the Lord. Yesterday it was a question I had to ask myself about where I turn for answers when trouble comes. Higgs also challenged me to consider who I am in good times as well as in bad. It was a good first day in the book of Ruth.

But I think those of us who fancy ourselves writers need to be careful not to interject our own bias and/or hangups into our interpretation of Scripture. I’m sure I’ve been guilty of that, and will try to do better in the future. I want Scripture to speak for itself and not assume I know what’s going on behind the scene.

That being said, I whole-heartedly disagree with Mrs. Higg’s reasoning behind Naomi’s seemingly change of heart. From what I read in these verses, there is nothing to indicate she was afraid of the reception she’d receive upon return to Canaan with two Moabite daughters-in-law in tow. I don’t see that she was a menopausal emotional basket case. In fact, I see nothing of a self-serving motive for why Naomi seems to suddenly do an about-face.

The only thing we know for sure is that three women started out on a journey. Naomi stops and offers the younger women a chance to decide for themselves whether or not they will continue. I see selfless love in Naomi’s words, and I see a lesson all parents must learn.

You know that your decision to follow Jesus was a personal decision you had to make. The same is true for your children. We bring up those precious ones in the way they should go. We take them to church, pray before meals, talk with them about right and wrong, about Jesus and their need for the Savior.

You can take a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.

And you know that.

Naomi chose to leave her life of sin and embrace the one True God. She brought her daughters-in-law as far as she could, but there came the time she had to let them choose for themselves. I see a loving mother setting her children free, knowing she couldn’t force them to choose her God or follow her path.

Some of you have experienced the heartache of watching a child walk away, turning a back on God and embracing a life of sin. Is that what Naomi felt as she watched Orpah walk away?

Some of you – I pray most of you – have known the joy of watching a child turn from sin, choose to embrace the God you love, and walk with you in relationship with the Savior. I think that’s what Naomi felt when Ruth clung to her.

Parents, you have the awesome responsibility to teach, to demonstrate, to model what it means to be saved by grace, and to walk with Jesus. Don’t take that lightly because the window for this ministry is fast closing. Your kids are growing up and learning to make decisions for themselves – right or wrong. Help them learn the blessings that come from choosing right, and the painful consequences for choosing the wrong.

As much as you’d like it to be different, their decision to follow Christ is their’s alone. I think Naomi wanted both her daughters-in-law to choose her God. (my opinion. Scripture isn’t clear about that). I think you want your children to choose your God, too.

But in the end, it’s not your choice.

Keep teaching. Keep praying. Keep following the Lord loud and strong. Keep loving. And keep hoping that one day they will choose to turn from sin and follow God. Keep believing that God’s Word doesn’t return void.

I’m praying for you.