Job 6-9

Job’s friend, Bildad, told the grieving father that his children got what they deserved. Then he went on to say that if Job would get right with God, God would make him rich again. Way to pour salt into that wound, Bildad.

Often when someone dies, well-wishers say things like, “It was God’s will”, or “God needed another angel”, or “It was his time”, or the ever-popular “Life goes on.” I wonder if the one who grieves is ever comforted with such words.

Let me suggest that when we are in the presence of a grieving person, we need not speak for God. A simple, “I’m praying for you” or “If you need to talk, I’m here,” or “I love you” may be what that dear one needs, rather than giving an answer to a question he or she isn’t asking.

Sometimes just being present, really present, is exactly the comfort a grieving person needs. Sometimes silence really is golden.

Dear Comforter, I pray for anyone reading this blog who is grieving today. Grief that comes from the loss of a loved one, the loss of a relationship, or a job, or a home, or health. Give them a sense of your Presence, and may they allow You to be the comfort and strength they need to walk through this time. And, Father, I pray that you will give us all a sensitivity toward those who grieve. Remind us that we don’t have to have all the answers. Remind us we don’t have to say a thing.